tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833607.post5580845127484913884..comments2023-06-14T03:36:55.988-07:00Comments on Head Nurse: Jo Makes A Public Announcement; or, Dude, I'm Baggin' It.Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16520599099436383317noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833607.post-82404100371391855212010-01-12T08:00:19.834-08:002010-01-12T08:00:19.834-08:00Too smart ehh??
Hmm..
Hogwash I say.
It's some...Too smart ehh??<br />Hmm..<br />Hogwash I say.<br />It's someone else excuse for their inferiority.<br />Grr.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17633224487191573770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833607.post-12817907778477602352010-01-11T15:16:53.646-08:002010-01-11T15:16:53.646-08:00"Most of the time I'm unaware of what my ..."Most of the time I'm unaware of what my face is doing."<br />Glad to know this is an inherited condition, cousin, this is one of my tragic flaws as well.. best of luck to you.Leaf-Nosed Bathttp://thepublicinterest.freedomblogging.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833607.post-72093750396143243382010-01-10T18:12:49.982-08:002010-01-10T18:12:49.982-08:00I, like Maha and others, have gotten the "too...I, like Maha and others, have gotten the "too smart" comment, as well as the "scary when you're angry" and "dont tolerate fools gladly" comment. I stand MAYBE 5'3" tall, and smack into doorways through inattention. I'm mid 20s, engaged once (it didn't take) and havent dated in FIVE YEARS. :-D<br /><br />I really wonder where all the BRAVE single men are :-pAlpine, R.N.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02560998014555307666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833607.post-10964391987297328512010-01-10T17:44:57.946-08:002010-01-10T17:44:57.946-08:00I made the same decision 7 yrs ago - then went to ...I made the same decision 7 yrs ago - then went to work in the Middle East (Nurse Administrator) and had a fab time - then on a trip to home town in Europe I hooked up with my old HS boyfriend - out of the blue. Hadn't seen him for 30 yrs. We are now married (6 yrs) v happy and living in USA again. My girlfriends who were all dying to get married were FURIOUS - as I was the one who had no interest in meeting men, marriage, wouldnt go to parties etc. It was highly amusing. <br />So go ahead and withdraw yourself... but let me tell you - shit happens when you least expect.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833607.post-44199112493209960062010-01-10T12:32:43.365-08:002010-01-10T12:32:43.365-08:00Great post! I found you via Cats with Passports. I...Great post! I found you via Cats with Passports. I agree with the pp - the only way to hook up with the real thing is to be yourself on all your smart, funky, quirky glory! I hope someone wonderful pops up when you're not looking and begs for your attention:)tireegal68https://www.blogger.com/profile/13943003575298698264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833607.post-48037053755011333452010-01-09T21:09:17.542-08:002010-01-09T21:09:17.542-08:00I'm almost in my 30s, not married and I get th...I'm almost in my 30s, not married and I get the same damn comments - too smart, too picky, be gentler etc. It's so disheartening. Why is it that I have to silence myself to attract someone who's obsessed with following archaic gender roles? I'm well on my way to single cat lady ville but if my options are to shut up, dress up and constantly put up with a guy's insecurities, then I'm on my way to the grocery store to buy a bag of kibble.Mahahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04860979377398925052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833607.post-32947593558757388362010-01-09T19:15:32.086-08:002010-01-09T19:15:32.086-08:00You know, it seems to me that the best way to have...You know, it seems to me that the best way to have someone who likes you as you are is to BE as you are. Why "fix up" as they say in my hood to be someone other than who you are- it would attract someone who liked the fake you, and not the real you. I happen to be married, but if that were to end I would not be out there looking, either. Seems to take up a lot of time that could be spent doing more interesting things, like re-wiring stuff.<br /><br />Now after all the recipe stuff, I need to go make rice and beans.woolywomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14798060848062776281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833607.post-59824262864992535612010-01-09T15:56:35.583-08:002010-01-09T15:56:35.583-08:00I can empathise. Dating in my 40's I met a lot...I can empathise. Dating in my 40's I met a lot of 40-year old single men who knew they weren't as smart but were looking for a dumb bimbo. <br />I remember one philosophy prof who used to hang out with his students. I was good for a laugh. (I wasn't blogging then, or I would have shared the laugh!)<br />Thanks for sharing Dr. Dweebo!Jenn Jilkshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05259681360456905055noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833607.post-41374284833348142732010-01-09T13:55:32.095-08:002010-01-09T13:55:32.095-08:00Sex. It's important for men, but everyone pre...Sex. It's important for men, but everyone pretends it's not part of the equation (or worse that it's disgusting that it's so important). Because sex is the main thing that distinguishes a close friendship from something more (maybe add kids, but most people acquire their kids the old-fashioned way).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833607.post-51231190532111943632010-01-09T11:36:00.333-08:002010-01-09T11:36:00.333-08:00I've also had the 'too smart' comment....I've also had the 'too smart' comment. Also, I'm 'too picky'. Just because I won't go out with someone who has no respect for me. Sigh...I, Goddesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08943004010071170064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833607.post-60200474423584020602010-01-09T11:35:03.949-08:002010-01-09T11:35:03.949-08:00Listen, honey. I'm 52 and I know a couple of t...Listen, honey. I'm 52 and I know a couple of things: #1 is that Love is as perennial as the grass. It'll come up again. No baggin' it. I've been married 3 times and 2 of them have been very good. Have that "smart" problem, too, so twice I married professors. They actually like it that I'm "smart." And they don't try to be smarter than me because well, you know, we women do the yeowman's share of the work in life. And they depend on it. My free advice: be gentle with yourself. You are entirely loveable and then some. Kiss your boo-boo-s and go on about life as you were. You can't help it that some people are lower on the totem pole, mentally, than you are.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833607.post-87001011249339905522010-01-09T07:33:37.741-08:002010-01-09T07:33:37.741-08:00This is my first post to your blog, but I've b...This is my first post to your blog, but I've been reading it for a while (do't even remember when I came across it now.)<br /><br />From what I've read here, you are a real catch, and if I go into the hospital again, I'd want to see you zipping around the halls.<br /><br />(I'm male, mid-sixtys now and it took me three tries to find a smart, energetic independent woman who can put up with me. Somewhat like you, I had had it with dating and looking for the right person. Then she moved in above me.)<br /><br />Bottom line: Give up trying for a bit and let life come to you. Don't get the feeling, "Dear God, I want patience and I want it NOW!"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833607.post-63140965078725345172010-01-08T21:41:33.788-08:002010-01-08T21:41:33.788-08:00I hear ya, Sista'.
SI hear ya, Sista'. <br /><br />SAn Open Hearthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01581361716412644419noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833607.post-33459828881551274502010-01-08T20:57:28.849-08:002010-01-08T20:57:28.849-08:00True, you don't need a man. And life can be pl...True, you don't need a man. And life can be plenty good without one. I say enjoy your singleness, and if your singleness changes then enjoy that!Pamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09922976474748228754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833607.post-90165591022463429962010-01-08T20:36:31.427-08:002010-01-08T20:36:31.427-08:00Sadly, Anon and others, the person who can cap my ...Sadly, Anon and others, the person who can cap my quotes has already shown up and doesn't want much to do with me...so I'm baggin' it. It seems safer that way.Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16520599099436383317noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833607.post-1918679059577459672010-01-08T20:33:33.745-08:002010-01-08T20:33:33.745-08:00You're amazing. And any smart, confident, ega...You're amazing. And any smart, confident, egalitarian-minded guy should be so damn lucky. That said, what you're saying makes total sense. Just be careful now--this is exactly the kind of moment when Mr. Right shows up and the amazing woman falls hard...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833607.post-55434642495850921562010-01-08T20:28:53.851-08:002010-01-08T20:28:53.851-08:00I'm of a similar age and persuasion, and I'...I'm of a similar age and persuasion, and I've gotten the "too smart" before as well. <br /><br />So, I embraced my inner cougar and started dating men in their late twenties & early thirties. My rule is if I could have babysat you, we're cool ... but if I could be your mama, you're too young. <br /><br />Anyhoo, I'm having a *great* time and these "too smart, too fat, too independent" issues just aren't coming up. The next generation seems to have been raised to appreciate actual, real, live women, not fairy tale princesses. Rrowr!pelicanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00623610883701005178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6833607.post-39519763602028490722010-01-08T20:10:09.696-08:002010-01-08T20:10:09.696-08:00The title of this post almost made me panic, as I ...The title of this post almost made me panic, as I thought you were baggin' your BLOG.<br />*phew*<br /><br />And I empathize. Mid-30's singleton here.Christinenoreply@blogger.com